When you’re confronted with that gut feeling that says your husband is cheating, you go on high alert. You start paying attention to all. Some actions are innocent, but others are certainly not! Stay alert for these signs of a cheating husband.

Your man suddenly starts to lose weight, and he makes a point of buying new clothes. He looks spiffy all of a sudden. He didn’t care that much about his appearance before, so you have to wonder what changed.

He starts spending hour after hour at the gym. You might well start seeing improvements in his body, but does he really need all that time to work out? If he’s making it a day after day habit, those hours on end might be an obsession with something other than rock-hard abs.

He takes up a drinking habit – or, rather, a habit of going out to drink with the guys from work. Now he goes out with them for an after-work drink every other day, it seems. Who is he really going out with?

Your sex life has changed. It’s either revved up like it hasn’t since you were honeymooners, or it is virtually nonexistent. He will either be all over you, introducing new positions and trying to get you into more graphic sexual activity, or he will back off. Either one is a red flag.

Speaking of sex, has your partner suddenly brought up the thought of swinging, or of an open marriage? Many men having affairs will try to find a solution that will allow them to keep having them without getting caught – and if their wife is open to swapping partners or swinging with another couple, they may have found their simple way out.

Does he spend a lot of time on the internet, but doesn’t want to share what he’s doing? If you take a look at your temporary files and find pictures of someone who is certainly not you, or an email account you don’t recognize, he is probably fooling around behind your back.

Does he get a lot of calls from the same number? When you question, he brushes it off as just someone from work, but the way he talks to them says otherwise. Press him to find out who that person is, and if he gets irritated or evasive, it’s time to search deeper.

Search deeper by checking out even more signs of a cheating partner. Soon you will hit the roll-over prize, and know further than a shadow of a doubt whether your husband is stepping out with someone else.

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