The spectrum of infidelity and unfaithfulness in ones spouse can be a poison within ones life making us feel lost, afraid, angry but mostly anxious if we do not have any proof of any cheating that is going on. While some wives cover up their affairs with precision it is almost impossible to eradicate all traces of the engaging effects of an affair. To help you confirm whether your fears are unfounded or real here are 4 unfaithful, cheating wife signs to be aware of.
1. Phone oddities
With communication so easy with mobiles, home phones, cordless phones, texting, phone media and so on people can be connected to each other whenever they feel like it and the giddy highs of infidelity lead to such communications being very frequent. If you find your wife talking on the phone out of earshot often or if you answer the phone only to have it hang up on you there may be something going on. Also if you find her phone is suddenly clean of messages when she may have left them there before then you must ask why she is “cleaning up” so much. Just make sure these things are not because she is planning a surprise birthday party!
2. Internet oddities
Like telephones the internet gives us an extraordinary ability to communicate, remain anonymous and clean up the evidence too. However there are many ways of finding information from a computer by searching the cache files, looking at site histories, reading chat logs and so forth. If all pof these things are suddenly being deleted though it may be more proof that something is going on.
3. Routine changes
Most marriages have a certain routine to them. Some are heavily regimented especially if you have children and others are a bit looser but it is rare that a marriage is so lacking in a routine that you cannot pick changes in these routines that may hint that your wife might be cheating on you. Perhaps the times she arrives home starts varying wildly or perhaps she starts getting tired on certain nights where she used to want to go out. There could be a thousand variations on this and small changes may be for other reasons but affairs tend to be passionate and lead to wild swings of mood and routine rather than small ones.
4. Sex changes
Cheating can have wildly different effects on peoples sexuality. While many would think that sex would diminish during this period sometimes the opposite is in effect where a dormant sexuality becomes active and sexual intimacy may skyrocket and be more varied and wilder than before. Sometimes the amount of sex may not change but small nuances in the bed may be different enough to spark some suspicion.
While many of these signs may simply increase your suspicion of your wife some may hold some definite answers and all together may be enough to have a full enough picture to make the call. Unfaithful, cheating wife signs may vary quite a lot depending on many factors in both of your lives and your relationship and history so all these tips are just guidelines you may need to adjust to suit.
