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May 27, 2009
May 26, 2009
Sign of a Cheating Spouse: Catching Them Just Got Tougher
The renowned singer Connie Francis once sang “Lipstick on your collar told a tale on you.” The song maybe dated but the sentiment remains. Catching a cheating spouse in many ways still comes down to the same warning signs that have been around since time immemorial.
In addition to lipstick on the collar, a sign of a cheating spouse includes unexplained (or badly explained) changes in their personal appearance, the classic working late but not really, unaccounted for charges on the credit card as well as a noticeable distance and secretiveness beginning to dominate the relationship.
There are a multitude of signs to be on guard for if you have suspicions your spouse is cheating. Unfortunately in this day and age, two things which have become an integral part of our lives are also major obstacles when it comes to discovering marital infidelity.
1. The Internet
They do not call it the information highway for nothing. The ability to instantaneously connect with someone from around the globe is a technological marvel. It’s also an avenue for temptation. It has become all too easy to meet people who have no compunction about hooking up for some offline romance. The almost unlimited supply of potential partners has made the internet THE place to cheat.
Online cheating allows someone to remain anonymous while also affordsing them the capacity to cover their tracks. This takes on a more heightened effectiveness if the unfaithful spouse tends to be more computer savvy than their significant other. They could literally be carrying on an affair while sitting in the same room as their partner.
Even if the person tells themselves they would never cross the line by actually meeting their online companion, it still comes down to taking away emotionally from the relationship they are currently in. Besides that, curiosity is a powerful motivator. If two parties are really hitting it off well in cyberspace then somewhere down the line the pull to meet the other person maybe a little too strong to ignore.
2. The Mobile
In the old days frequent calls at inappropriate moments or just picking up a telephone extension could tell you all you needed to know about whether a spouse was cheating. And now? Not so much. The cell phone has been a gift to many an unfaithful partner.
Besides the obvious benefit of being able to take all calls directly, the cell phone also allows the cheating spouse to keep tabs on their significant other. If for instance both parties decide that an afternoon rendezvous would make their day go better, than a quick call to find out your whereabouts and what’s on your immediate agenda will tell your partner all they need to know. Being able to coordinate the movements of all parties involved after receiving immediate information has in far too many instances taken cheating to a new level.
The tested and proven methods of catching a cheating spouse are always going to be with us. No matter how much precaution someone goes through to keep their extramarital affair hidden, they are still human and subject to making mistakes. But the reality is the internet along with mobile phones has made the job of catching a cheating spouse a whole lot tougher.
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May 23, 2009
Cheating Husbands and Mobile Technology – A Perfect Fit
With the incredible improvements in online and cell phone usability, could your husband be benefiting when it comes to using this technology to continue to stay in touch with the other woman?
If your husband is taking part in an illicit affair, having the power to instantaneously communicate with his partner is definitely the ultimate in convenience. However, it is not absolutely essential. Your husband’s infidelity would continue even without the latest high tech gadgets. If he’s determined to carry on with someone else, it’ll transpire no matter what.
Infidelity is as old as mankind, and there is little that has ever kept a persistent pair from getting together. No doubt, it took a lot more willpower to carry on an affair back in the day, however.
With technology being what it is today, the cheating duo can maintain touch with little difficulty. There are a number of methods to keep in close contact and maintain that intimacy.
Regrettably, with these new devices, your husband’s infidelity is likely going to advance at a much quicker rate than in previous years – This is all down to the increased frequency of communication. For most cheating husbands, bonds are being developed speedily, and in a lot of situations, right under their partner’s noses.
Does his phone keep ringing after hours? What about those mysterious text alerts? Is he taking these calls in another room or outside? Is it possible that they are legitimate and somehow office related as he claims? How many wrong numbers is considered suspicious?
One of the most tempting things about this new technology is the fact that cheaters can easily call, text, or beep their counterpart whenever they want. Cheating partners can now feel much closer to the new person in their lives.
What are the odds that your husband is utilizing his mobile phone to communicate with his mistress? And has cell phone technology really given the advantage to your unfaithful spouse?
Well, yes, but that luxury also comes at a cost. While it’s a fact that these high tech phones make it easier to communicate, your partner is also leaving a trail of damning evidence – an electronic record of everything he’s doing.
If you are the partner of a cheating husband, you shouldn’t honestly have to fret about there being enough hard evidence on hand. Your husband’s cell phone and computer records are just bursting with info that you will be able to build your case with.
Given the fact that you are able to view this incriminating digital proof with relative ease, you have to ask: Who has been phoning your husband, and how long will you allow it to continue?
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