» May 28th, 2010
Do you have what it takes to catch a cheater? I would like to think that the first thing you would need to have would be a good suspicion that something is really going on. Not just your insecurities about your relationship making you think the worst. Or not because every other person you have ever had a serious relationship with cheated. Is has to be more than this. Do you have what it takes to catch a cheater?
I would like to think that the first thing you would need to have would be a good suspicion that something is really going on. Not just your insecurities about your relationship making you think the worst. Or not because every other person you have ever had a serious relationship with cheated. Is has to be more than this.
I will say that your instincts are very important. You can usually trust your gut and if you have that kind of feeling it may be worth listening to. I’m sure you have heard all the signs of cheating. They haven’t really changed. Things such as a change in wardrobe or a change in sleep habits. A sudden lack of interest in sex or becoming more distant. These are all typical signs to look for when trying to catch a cheater. We live in such a high tech world, cheating seems to be easier than ever. You can erase your texts or any call you make or receive on your cell phone. You can set your phone to silent or vibrate.
Then there’s the Internet and all its glory. There are even web sites just for cheaters. Create yourself a profile and find another cheater to cheat with! How convenient is that? Lets not forget that this high tech thing works both ways. It is actually easier than ever to catch a cheater. There are so many devices on the market and at a rate much less than hiring a private detective. Devices to video, track or record. It’s all available. If you have good reason to believe your partner is cheating do your homework and keep a level head and you will catch a cheater.
Are you at the point where you need to catch a cheater? There is no reason to let someone make a big fool out of you, is there? This is why you need to check their cell phone records to see who they are REALLY talking to and texting. This is easy to do if you know where to go. Check out this website to trace a cell phone number
» May 3rd, 2010
ght (c) 2009 Ed Opperman
Cheating spouses have been a problem for the faithfully married for almost as long as marriage has been a recognized union. In other words, cheating is an unfortunate reality for married couples, as it has always been. To further complicate this problem, over time, cheaters have become more adept at hiding their deceit, lies, and infidelity. As societies, and technologies, mature — cheaters learn from others past mistakes to help create for them an alternate life that is well-hidden from you, and from the rest of your world as a couple, for that matter.
The biggest problem spot for couples, in terms of infidelity, these days is the internet. However, many spouses mistakenly blame the internet for the downfall of their marriage, or the corruption of their spouse, and that is simply not the case. In many respects, the internet has replaced the bar scene, looking for prostitutes in the shadier parts of town, and the newsletter-like adult personals of years past. In other words — the internet is simply an easier-to-use tool for those who already had adulterous tendencies inside of them anyway. While cheaters like the internet because it gives them a sense of anonymity and an extra layer of security, using the internet is actually the best way to identify, and catch, a cheater.
Many people are misled about the true anonymity of the internet. In reality, most of your activities, and your spouse’s activities, are clearly visible online, so long as you have the right resources and the know-how to find this information. Maybe your spouse knows how to cover their tracks on their computer — they delete their emails, they clear their browsing history, and maybe they even scrub their hard-drive with data-shredding software on a regular basis to permanently remove all traces of their illicit activities. However, it’s in what they can’t do that can eventually lead to them being caught.
Any time that your spouse signs up on a website — a married-but-dating website, an adult chat service, a video cam website, or any other adult-oriented destination online, their information is stored on that website. What’s more, though, is that sometimes, these websites showcase profiles of their members — profiles that anybody can find, so long as they know what to look for, and how to look for them.
While you may not be able to find this information yourself, people who specialize in extramarital investigations online can. These online investigators can find your spouse online; they can identify which websites he or she is visiting, any profiles that he may have setup, and they can even communicate with your spouse, via an online profile, to obtain definitive proof that your spouse is, in fact, cheating on you.
While cheaters oftentimes find great comfort, albeit misplaced, in the fact that they can hide their online activity on their computers, the best way to catch a cheater is by utilizing the very source of their infidelity against them.
» April 29th, 2010
ght (c) 2009 Ed Opperman
When you think your spouse is cheating, you need to take the initiative to find out the truth about what is really going on. To do this, you need to decide if you want to learn the truth on your own, or if you want to hire an investigator to start catching a cheating spouse for you. No matter what method you decide to use, you still need to know whether it is possible for you to do it yourself. You are the closest one to your spouse, so it will be easier for you to watch them. This article is going to tell you what things you can do to make it possible to catch a cheater by yourself or with help.
There are many ways that you can catch your spouse cheating, but you want to make sure that they don’t know that you suspect them of cheating. If they do, then they will make it much harder for you to find any proof. So, don’t act any differently with them, but watch them closely and listen to them closely because they will give themselves away in many different ways. So, here are the things you need to do.
One: Put a spy camera in your home, you want to make sure this is legal in your state before you do this, but this is the best way to catch your spouse cheating in your home. Your spouse will get bold enough at some point and bring the other woman or man home with them when they think you will be gone. A camera in your home will catch them on video. This will be all the proof you need to know what is happening.
Two: Search their personal items in your home and in their car. Don’t make it obvious that you are doing this because they will catch on if you do. Just keep your eyes open for anything that you don’t recognize. There will be signs somewhere.
Three: Check their cell phones for calls or texts and check their computers on a regular basis. Many cheaters these days prefer to cheat online, but just because it is online doesn’t mean that it is not cheating and it doesn’t mean that you won’t be hurt by it.
These are just some of the different ways that you can catch a cheater yourself. If you prefer to, you can hire an investigator to help you, it would definitely be easier on you and will not require all your time. However, you have to make the decision yourself on how you go about catching a cheating spouse. Don’t wait for things to get worse because then it will just hurt more, instead, find out the truth today.